my friend and her roomie

my friend seems quite bothered with her room mate. the fact that they are best buddies since primary school doesn't make things easier. ironically, it worsens the situation. i don't quite know the details, but it's something about my friend being "betrayed" by her best friend.

i'm not taking any sides, coz, i have just seen one side of the coin. i haven't seen the other side, and if there's a chance, i'm really interested to know the other side of the story. things like these; being backstabbed, rumours being spread, untrue news being told; i don't see the point of it at the first place. what's the point anyway? if he's a friend of mine, the last thing i would wanna do is to spread news about him. what's the rationale behind her actions, i dunno. being a friend for more than ten years, i guess there's enough time to get to know a friend personally, no? it would be natural for them to have a mutual understanding about each other and respecting it, no? after all, ten years of a friendship is something hard to come by...

i think the name callings and backstabbing is totally uncalled for.

when friendship turns sour, this is what happens. i guess. i think i've been through those situation before. backstabbers and stuff. if i were to know about this problem of hers a few years back, i'll think it's a way serious problem. but now, i don't see it as a problem anymore. maybe i've been through it, and i've realized that they are just one tiny part of the world that we are seeing. i'll take it as a lesson to get to know that person better.

i hope things would be fine. coz it bothers me alot to see friendships turn sour..